Secret Answer of Unprecedented Question's of Life

Bothering Question

One question always bother me, since I step into the world of my passion, that what make some people to walk on unconventional path leaving aside most used roads. How those people got courage to face the challenges of life?

Sacrificing Luxuries

This question becomes more important and valid,

1. When ‘Someone has lot to lose’ unlike people for whom ‘there is nothing to lose'.
2. When they have very handsome 6 figure salary, which got credited in their account in the end  of every month without delay.
3. When they are living with their lovely family..
4. When they have lots of lovely friends with whom they hang out in the weekend and enjoy whole night.
5. When they have very respectable status in the society.
6. Last but not the least ‘when they have very secured future in terms of their job’

Valid Question

Keeping in mind regarding all of the above luxuries to enjoy, Is this a question of leaving their comfort zone? & if its not, then what makes such people to be able to leave their comfort zone amidst below questions:-

1. Why some people show courage to move to strange city among the strange people and live in a fear of always bothering thought of losing all the saving to sustain for life?
2. Why some people hustle among strangers and start whole new career?
3. Why do they leave their lovely family and friends back?
4. Why are they ready to leave their luxuries and comfort to take pain of living in limitation?
5. Why do they happily embrace the uncertainties?
6. Why do they chose get ridiculed by the society for pursuing their unconventional and nontraditional dreams?

Revelation of Unprecedented Question

                                In quest of searching all the above questions in the internet, books and in experience of my own life, i got an answer. I know, what are you thinking if you have come to read till here, that ‘Its their passion, their dream’. Yeah this is ultimate answer and all the people in this earth know this, but this answer is also not able to end my quest, not able to satisfied me. The mystery is hidden just before reaching the ultimate answer.

                                 “Its all about making a Choices in Life” & “Its all about people who make fearless choices to lose whatever they have in quest of living their dreams”

Our life is a result of Choices we make. If we don’t like our life, then it is time to start making better choices. We make our choices, and then our choices make us. Life is all sums of our choices.

Answering Complexities of Life

जीवन के जटिल सवाल

           

          
             क्या ज़िंदगी मुझे कभी मौका नहीं देगी अपने दिल का काम करने का? क्या मेरी किस्मत कभी नहीं बदलेगी? क्या मेरे हालात कभी नहीं बदलेंगे? क्या मेरी निजी ज़िम्मेदारियाँ हमेशा मुझे जकड़े रहेंगी? क्या मै वही राह पर जा रहा हूँ जहाँ ज़िंदगी मुझे लेके जा रही है? क्या ज़िंदगी मुझे कभी मौका नहीं देगी खुद को तलाश करने की? 
            ऐसे बहोत से लोग है जिन्हें उपरोक्त सवालो से जूझना पड़ता है और ऐसे प्रश्न उन्हे अलग-अलग तरह से परेशान करते रहते है। जब इंसान के सामने इतने सारे प्रश्न एक साथ उठते है तो वह खुद में उलझ जाता है। वह इन सारे सवालो का जवाब तलाशने की बहोत कोशिश करता है, लेकिन उसे हताशा ही हाथ लगती है।

प्राप्त उत्तर की प्रमाणिकता पर संदेह                                          

           अगर गाहे बगाहे ऐसे सवालो का जवाब ढूंढ भी ले तो दिल में हमेशा एक प्रश्नचिन्ह लगा रहता है? विपरीत परिस्तिथियों से निकले व्यक्ति के अंदर आत्मविश्वास की कमी उसे प्राप्त जवाब पर यकीन करने नहीं देती। हर व्यक्ति का जीवन इतना सरल नहीं होता की वह जैसा चाहे मन मुताबिक जीवन जी ले। कुछ लोगो के जीवन में व्याप्त जटिलता उनके लिए जीवन का पर्याय बन जाती है।

            जीवन में कुछ लोग ऐसे होते जिनके पास ये कहने या महसूस करने की सुविधा नहीं होती की ‘उनके पास खोने को कुछ नहीं है।‘ दुनियाँ में ऐसे व्यक्तियों को किन्ही दो में एक को चुनने का अत्यंत मुश्किल एवं साहसी चुनाव करने से गुज़रना पड़ता है। हमारे पास खोने को बहोत कुछ होता है, लेकिन जिस वस्तु को पाने की लालसा है, उसे पाने में पहले से संचित वस्तु को खोने का भय होता है, भवीष्य की अस्थिरता होती है।

पूर्व से संचित वस्तु का मोह त्यागना

              उपरोक्त सभी सवालो के संतुष्टी से तृप्त करने हेतु एक ही जवाब है और वो यह कि हम जो पाना चाहते है उसे पाने हेतु पहले से अर्जित वस्तु को खोने का मोह त्यागना होगा अर्थात जीवन में निर्णय लेना ही होगा। जो निर्णय हम लें वो हमारे दिल से जुड़ा हुआ होना चाहिए। यदि ऐसे निर्णय के लिए हमें कुछ खोना भी पडे़ तो ज़्यादा चिंतन नहीं करना चाहिए क्योकि जिस चुनाव में दिल जुड़ा हुआ हो वहाँ असफलता बहोत दिनों तक वास नहीं कर सक्ती। जीवन में दिल की दिशा की ओर लिये गए निर्णय पर कभी भी पछतावा नहीं करना चहिये। पछतावा व्यक्ति को अंदर से खोखला कर देता है। एक बार जो निर्णय ले लिया उस पर अंतिम सांस तक अडिग रहना चहिये।

जीवन मे सफलता का प्रवेश

              

              हमारे दिल की पसंद के ईंटो से बने घर में ‘असफलता‘ नामक अतिथी बहोत अधीक दिनों तक नहीं रह सक्ता। असफलता को सफलता के लिए घर खाली करना ही पड़ता है। क्योकी मनुष्य के दिल का असली मालकिन ‘सफलता‘ ही है (परन्तु मनुष्य के जीवन में आने वाली कठिनाईयों से उत्पन्न भय, ईष्या, क्रोध के साथ उसका सामंजस्य नहीं बनने से वह स्वेच्छा से घर छोड़ देती  है) और जब ‘सफलता‘ उस घर में प्रवेश करती है तब सारा घर (दिल) ‘दिवाली‘ के दियों से जगमगा उठता है।

How to Perceive Failure as Step Towards Success | Secret of 3 "E's"

Beginning of Success Journey

It happens when you watch any motivational video or movie or speech, that moment you felt your self completely filled with motivation. In excitement you pack your bags, leaving every thing back & get out to become successful. But, after coming to outside World, you come to know about the ground reality. The moment you face failure, you become vulnerable to the adverse circumstance. 

On Mission to Success

If you are on a mission to become successful, then that mission must be chosen from your heart, it should come out of your passion. It is very necessary that your mission should excites you, thrills you. If you are consistently failing, then you should start taking every failure as step of staircase towards success. 

Constructing Success Staircase

With each failure, you are constructing step of staircase, which ends on the door of success. Every steps (failure) takes you more close to success. You are moving from downstairs to up stairs. The only thing you have to consistently focus here is that Energy needed in climbing Upstairs is more in comparison to general walk to upstairs of real life. 

Maintaining 3 "E's"

With every single step you take, should be filled with  3 E's i.e. Energy, Excitement, Enthusiasm & the more you step up, the intensity of your 3 E's should be same as your Maiden move. With each failure you have to start fresh with 3 E's which you had in the start of climbing. While maintaining your 3 E constantly till the end, you will definitely triumph in your journey and your self on the top of the WORLD.

                 It has already been said that "Success means traveling from failure to failure without loss of Enthusiasm" but I would like to amend it as "Success means traveling from failure to failure without loss of 3 E's i.e. Energy, Excitement, Enthusiasm"

How To Face Adversities

When Adversities Surrounds Stand Still Like Rock

At the time of Adversities, Problem or Tough phase, one should think of "ROCK" at the very moment. The Rock which remains at one place for years. No matter how much storms, wind blows through it, endless Rain water thrash it hardly, how much the fire like Sun rays falls on it directly, It remains stand still at the same place.

Rock give us inspirational insight that even shortcoming can become Power. The term like rigidity and stillness is seen as negative trait of person's behavior but when referring to ROCK, these term sounds like powerful, strong and solid traits.

If we think about growth and success, rigidity and stillness cannot be think as reference of inspiration but when some one going through tough phase same rigidity and stillness would seem like mountain and, if at adverse time someone manages to maintain these traits in his nature, it would be like ray of hope in the Darkness.

How To Walk A Road To Dream

A Road To Dream 

In life, we would not always have luxury of enjoying the adventure of pursuing our Dream with free mind i.e. we may have surrounded with many problems and adversities, which stop us from chasing our dream. We have to acknowledge that this is our destiny and we have to take some BIG or TOUGH or UNCONVENTIONAL step to make our Dream come true.

Keep Moving Towards Desired Destination

We have to get out of our comfort zone which may be associated to Luxury getting from our parents as legacy, High paying Job, Attachment with friends, family or colleague etc

It happens when we get stuck to our comfort zone for so long time, without giving any single thought because of this Time is slipping out of our hand like Sand. Then life awake us from sleep and we realize it has got too late. That is the time when you have to say to yourself "Its Now or Never"

We may let our self as the person "who always thought and believe that, I don't wanna die like "Mediocre Person", I have to do something remarkable, memorable and exceptional (without hurting other), to be remembered for centuries for great works.

Challenge Conventional Thinking of Society

Common people or so called Society would never understand our dream, because they have rigid, precise, limited level of thinking and imagination. With respect to our dream they would never reach to the level of understanding required to achieve that Dream.

If we have pursued any unconventional, uncommon career or dream, then we should be prepare and aware of 'uncertainties' of that career. If we are aiming to do something unconventional like walking different from the flock then, should remember that "Nothing is Permanent (not even our sorrows), Everything is Unpredictable (even our enormous Success)”.

 If we have seen uncommon, unconventional  dream, our life should not be common like other people. We would have to learn to deal with uncommon challenges. We have to learn to embrace the uncertainties.

We must have to start thinking in other way. We have to start changing our perception towards life. We have to adopt and put inside our skin 3 traits i.e. believing in our self, thinking positive and being fearless.

Big dream demands Bigger sacrifices, so be prepared for any sacrifices to make in our way and any adversities to face at our path. Life would never become Easy, we have to get Tougher with every passing moment. If our dream would be so easy then every second person could have achieved it.

Gratitude

We should be thankful to God for whatever we have. We should express our gratitude towards Gods every single day, which will make us fulfilled from the inside. Thanking God every single day make us feeling that we have Abundant. Even we don’t have single penny, but, if God has blessed with Good Health then we could earn and achieve whatever we desire in this world.

How to Give Dance Performance in Best Friend's Wedding Function

Dance Performance in Best Friend's Wedding Function

                You may have also come across such situation when it would be a big moment of your Best friend's life as he was going to get married & he expect that his best friend should give some awesome performance in his Sangeet ceremony.

                With his hope your challenges also started to grow. Whether you know dancing/singing or not but for his expectation you have to perform. Whether your circumstances allow you or not, to prepare, because of your damn hectic schedule. You are already booked with so many other commitments but your friend's hope put your pride in stakes. 

                 At one side you fear of being getting mocked and on the other side your Best friend looks at you with peripheral view with hope.

My First Blog

Hey, hello this is azhar..

 I don't know how to operate this blogging thing but still wanna try my hand in writing cause many times lots of thoughts going inside my head. I think writing some thoughts would make me feel relieve from inside. I don't know the technicality of posting this blog. Once i watched regarding blogs in YouTube but couldn't conceive it in my head fully.

I don't have any greed of getting applause or appreciation for my writing. Just want my thoughts to take shape as words, sentences. Just want to be real me. Want to pour out my thoughts being an unknown.

You can be real if you know there is nobody to recognize you. No need of formality of looking good or be good.

Its 11:36 pm in Raipur, Chhattisgarh, India. I was about to go towards my bed to read novel (Unlimited Power) before sleeping, but then i got this thought of writing something. 

I thought at least i should take initiative of writing. So i headed towards writing my maiden blog. I don't even have any idea whether my writing would be turning out as blog or not. Lets See...