19 January 2020

World Inside Out | Inner World & Outer World | Self improvement areas


World Inside Out

                

                                
                             While I was reading novel “The One Thing”, I got the motivation to write this blog. This novel provide mental discipline to focus on the one thing, it is when I got the idea to write straight forward points required to nourish our Inner world and Outer world.

          Inner World



                               
                                          Things, I or any other individual have to do to grow himself in terms of                            personality.

1.)    Focus only on one thing.
2.)   Practice so hard on “the one thing” that you will become best in particular work.
3.)   After every interval (week/month/year) try to improve on that particular work i.e. try to do the things uniquely by putting innovative ideas on it.

Outer World


                    Polishing only the inner world is not enough. One also have to be aware of the outer world i.e. what other’s want? In present scenario, everything is changing (updating) rapidly. While working on the inner world for own betterment, we also need to keep aware of our own changing perception with changing taste's of people. Following points should be kept in mind:-
1.)  While working on our own inner world, we should also keep an eye on changing scenario and taste's of  people who will be our direct receiver (audience/ consumer/ clients/ customer)
2.)    Present scenario or the factor influencing society is very important.
3.)    Improvement according to changing taste's of society is also very important

5 January 2020

How To Get Phenomenal Start In 2020


Getting Started in 2020


          Travelling from Year 2019, our life’s vehicle now reached at Year 2020. There is feeling of joy everywhere around us. People seems to be excited for the new year. We can use this New Year as stimulant to make a fresh start for any venture. 

         New Year has comes with opportunities to start thinking with empty head like an infant. Chance to erase the disappointment of the last year and start afresh. Our surroundings help us to make the initiation with excitement, as it provide us different angle to see the life through new lens.

Search for Desire or Interest


         If we are thinking of making a new start, then it is the very important aspect of our life to search for our Desire or Interest. We need to search match stick which can help us kindle the torch of our desire, so we can initiate with burning Desire. By getting aware of our own interest we can take 1st step to do something phenomenal. It is important to spent time on brainstorming and figure out what can we do with immense Passion. Here are some points through which we can put our mind in brainstorming which can make our way towards searching our Burning desire.

  1. We have to figure out thing which Excites us.
  2.  We have to look out for the thing in which we have great Interest and Passion for.
  3.  It should be the one thing which we can do for Hours effortlessly, without being getting tired.
  4. That desire should make us Enthusiastic from the bottom of our heart.
  5. Can search for the thing which we can Enjoy even doing repeatedly.


Monetizing our Desire


          I have deliberately not included this point in the above paragraph, because once money involved in any topic it block our imagination to float free on the ponds of hearts, rather it make us swim through the valley of brain. It restricts our thinking and made us think materialistically than thinking creatively. The moment we are finish with searching our Desire or Definite purpose, it is important to search for means through which we can generate revenue. We need to search for the option through which we can associate our interest and achieve riches.

          In this era of growing internet market, we can search way to take our Burning desire online. We should also exercise the ideas through which we can help, and make ourselves useful to others. The moment our desire and others need meets, the scope of generating revenue open.

Perfecting the Art


“Give me Six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the ax”
                                                                                                                  Abraham Lincoln


          Now, we have finished with finding out our desire and way to earn money through it. This is the time to perfecting our art i.e. sharpening the saw. We can only be useful to others if able to meet their requirement. The way to stand fare on others expectation is to serve with good quality, which is only possible once we make our art perfect. We need to work making our skills better, so that other could happily receive our Services. This would also provide us competitive edge. 

           Keeping all the above points in mind will give us a solid boost to get started in 2020, which would help us make achieve our Goals in 2020.


1 January 2020

Happy New Year | Beginning of New Hope | New Achievement


Happy New Year


 So, here I am wishing all the lovely and wonderful people out there, who have woke up this New Year morning with shiny dreams in their eyes, a very Happy New Year 2020.

New Hope


However may be the last year had been, New Year has arrived with full of new hope’s. However be the last year, whether it was full of struggle, failure or success. This New Year has come up with new hopes to Rock this world. Hope’s to simply nail down this New Year with more efforts, more endeavor and more achievements. Whatever has happened last year, it’s passed.

New Beginning


This New Year has come up with new challenges, new possibilities & new opportunities. This is the time to give up the burden of failure or hangover of the success of the last year. Whether it was failure or success, nothing will have its impact on present. We have to start doing things with new mindset to achieve our desired Goal.

New Achievements


Once we begin keeping to start afresh with new hope with full of energy, efforts and enthusiasm nothing can stop us to achieve new Goals. We have to set new benchmark for the mark of success. Whatever we have achieved last year should not climb our head. Now, this is the time to achieve new Goals with full of confidence and fearlessness. Keeping in mind that Human being has evolved since his existence on earth. It is a tendency of Human being to adapt according to new environment. This year has brought with it the new challenges to meet up.
  

29 December 2019

Secret Answer of Unprecedented Question's of Life


Bothering Question

One question always bother me, since I step into the world of my passion, that what make some people to walk on unconventional path leaving aside most used roads. How those people got courage to face the challenges of life?

Sacrificing Luxuries


This question becomes more important and valid,
  1. When ‘Someone has lot to lose’ unlike people for whom ‘there is nothing to lose'.
  2. When they have very handsome 6 figure salary, which got credited in their account in the end  of every month without delay.
  3. When they are living with their lovely family..
  4. When they have lots of lovely friends with whom they hang out in the weekend and enjoy whole night.
  5. When they have very respectable status in the society.
  6. Last but not the least ‘when they have very secured future in terms of their job

Valid Question


Keeping in mind regarding all of the above luxuries to enjoy, Is this a question of leaving their comfort zone? & if its not, then what makes such people to be able to leave their comfort zone amidst below questions:-

  1. Why some people show courage to move to strange city among the strange people and live in a fear of always bothering thought of losing all the saving to sustain for life?
  2. Why some people hustle among strangers and start whole new career?
  3. Why do they leave their lovely family and friends back?
  4. Why are they ready to leave their luxuries and comfort to take pain of living in limitation?
  5. Why do they happily embrace the uncertainties?
  6. Why do they chose get ridiculed by the society for pursuing their unconventional and nontraditional dreams?

Revelation of Unprecedented Question

                                In quest of searching all the above questions in the internet, books and in experience of my own life, i got an answer. I know, what are you thinking if you have come to read till here, that ‘Its their passion, their dream’. Yeah this is ultimate answer and all the people in this earth know this, but this answer is also not able to end my quest, not able to satisfied me. The mystery is hidden just before reaching the ultimate answer.

                                 “Its all about making a Choices in Life” & “Its all about people who make fearless choices to lose whatever they have in quest of living their dreams”


Our life is a result of Choices we make. If we don’t like our life, then it is time to start making better choices. We make our choices, and then our choices make us. Life is all sums of our choices.

27 December 2019

Answering Complexities of Life


जीवन के जटिल सवाल

           


          
             क्या ज़िंदगी मुझे कभी मौका नहीं देगी अपने दिल का काम करने का? क्या मेरी किस्मत कभी नहीं बदलेगी? क्या मेरे हालात कभी नहीं बदलेंगे? क्या मेरी निजी ज़िम्मेदारियाँ हमेशा मुझे जकड़े रहेंगी? क्या मै वही राह पर जा रहा हूँ जहाँ ज़िंदगी मुझे लेके जा रही है? क्या ज़िंदगी मुझे कभी मौका नहीं देगी खुद को तलाश करने की? 
            ऐसे बहोत से लोग है जिन्हें उपरोक्त सवालो से जूझना पड़ता है और ऐसे प्रश्न उन्हे अलग-अलग तरह से परेशान करते रहते है। जब इंसान के सामने इतने सारे प्रश्न एक साथ उठते है तो वह खुद में उलझ जाता है। वह इन सारे सवालो का जवाब तलाशने की बहोत कोशिश करता है, लेकिन उसे हताशा ही हाथ लगती है।

प्राप्त उत्तर की प्रमाणिकता पर संदेह                                          

           अगर गाहे बगाहे ऐसे सवालो का जवाब ढूंढ भी ले तो दिल में हमेशा एक प्रश्नचिन्ह लगा रहता है? विपरीत परिस्तिथियों से निकले व्यक्ति के अंदर आत्मविश्वास की कमी उसे प्राप्त जवाब पर यकीन करने नहीं देती। हर व्यक्ति का जीवन इतना सरल नहीं होता की वह जैसा चाहे मन मुताबिक जीवन जी ले। कुछ लोगो के जीवन में व्याप्त जटिलता उनके लिए जीवन का पर्याय बन जाती है।

            जीवन में कुछ लोग ऐसे होते जिनके पास ये कहने या महसूस करने की सुविधा नहीं होती की ‘उनके पास खोने को कुछ नहीं है।‘ दुनियाँ में ऐसे व्यक्तियों को किन्ही दो में एक को चुनने का अत्यंत मुश्किल एवं साहसी चुनाव करने से गुज़रना पड़ता है। हमारे पास खोने को बहोत कुछ होता है, लेकिन जिस वस्तु को पाने की लालसा है, उसे पाने में पहले से संचित वस्तु को खोने का भय होता है, भवीष्य की अस्थिरता होती है।


पूर्व से संचित वस्तु का मोह त्यागना



              उपरोक्त सभी सवालो के संतुष्टी से तृप्त करने हेतु एक ही जवाब है और वो यह कि हम जो पाना चाहते है उसे पाने हेतु पहले से अर्जित वस्तु को खोने का मोह त्यागना होगा अर्थात जीवन में निर्णय लेना ही होगा। जो निर्णय हम लें वो हमारे दिल से जुड़ा हुआ होना चाहिए। यदि ऐसे निर्णय के लिए हमें कुछ खोना भी पडे़ तो ज़्यादा चिंतन नहीं करना चाहिए क्योकि जिस चुनाव में दिल जुड़ा हुआ हो वहाँ असफलता बहोत दिनों तक वास नहीं कर सक्ती। जीवन में दिल की दिशा की ओर लिये गए निर्णय पर कभी भी पछतावा नहीं करना चहिये। पछतावा व्यक्ति को अंदर से खोखला कर देता है। एक बार जो निर्णय ले लिया उस पर अंतिम सांस तक अडिग रहना चहिये।

जीवन मे सफलता का प्रवेश



              
              हमारे दिल की पसंद के ईंटो से बने घर में ‘असफलता‘ नामक अतिथी बहोत अधीक दिनों तक नहीं रह सक्ता। असफलता को सफलता के लिए घर खाली करना ही पड़ता है। क्योकी मनुष्य के दिल का असली मालकिन ‘सफलता‘ ही है (परन्तु मनुष्य के जीवन में आने वाली कठिनाईयों से उत्पन्न भय, ईष्या, क्रोध के साथ उसका सामंजस्य नहीं बनने से वह स्वेच्छा से घर छोड़ देती  है) और जब ‘सफलता‘ उस घर में प्रवेश करती है तब सारा घर (दिल) ‘दिवाली‘ के दियों से जगमगा उठता है।

26 December 2019

How to Perceive Failure as Step Towards Success | Secret of 3 "E's"

Beginning of Success Journey


It happens when you watch any motivational video or movie or speech, that moment you felt your self completely filled with motivation. In excitement you pack your bags, leaving every thing back & get out to become successful. But, after coming to outside World, you come to know about the ground reality. The moment you face failure, you become vulnerable to the adverse circumstance. 

On Mission to Success


If you are on a mission to become successful, then that mission must be chosen from your heart, it should come out of your passion. It is very necessary that your mission should excites you, thrills you. If you are consistently failing, then you should start taking every failure as step of staircase towards success. 

Constructing Success Staircase



With each failure, you are constructing step of staircase, which ends on the door of success. Every steps (failure) takes you more close to success. You are moving from downstairs to up stairs. The only thing you have to consistently focus here is that Energy needed in climbing Upstairs is more in comparison to general walk to upstairs of real life. 


Maintaining 3 "E's"

With every single step you take, should be filled with  3 E's i.e. Energy, Excitement, Enthusiasm & the more you step up, the intensity of your 3 E's should be same as your Maiden move. With each failure you have to start fresh with 3 E's which you had in the start of climbing. While maintaining your 3 E constantly till the end, you will definitely triumph in your journey and your self on the top of the WORLD.
                 It has already been said that "Success means traveling from failure to failure without loss of Enthusiasm" but I would like to amend it as "Success means traveling from failure to failure without loss of 3 E's i.e. Energy, Excitement, Enthusiasm"





23 December 2019

How To Face Adversities

When Adversities Surrounds Stand Still Like Rock


At the time of Adversities, Problem or Tough phase, one should think of "ROCK" at the very moment. The Rock which remains at one place for years. No matter how much storms, wind blows through it, endless Rain water thrash it hardly, how much the fire like Sun rays falls on it directly, It remains stand still at the same place.



Rock give us inspirational insight that even shortcoming can become Power. The term like rigidity and stillness is seen as negative trait of person's behavior but when referring to ROCK, these term sounds like powerful, strong and solid traits.




If we think about growth and success, rigidity and stillness cannot be think as reference of inspiration but when some one going through tough phase same rigidity and stillness would seem like mountain and, if at adverse time someone manages to maintain these traits in his nature, it would be like ray of hope in the Darkness.